Evils of self-abuse illustrated and explained in French and English.
Overmasturbation is a myth created by people who want to sell you pills and men who feel a silly sense of sin and pointless guilt.
Unless it interferes with your relationship with your wife, girlfriend, lover wank whenever you wish.Exception - of course - : she controls your penis and keeps it locked up.
Back during Femdomic prehistory, when male chastity devices were made of cast iron this was a state of the art cock tease.
This was posted as a comment by “Steven.”
My girlfriend (now my femdom) and I started practicing chastity and orgasm denial on me a little over 2 years ago to curb my anger and to halt a sexual addiction to personal masturbation. At first, it was very difficult and emotional for me, but now I have turned erection and orgasm control over to her in a female supremacy relationship and I love it.
We agreed on a program of one orgasm per week for me (usually Sunday is the day of ejaculation) - 52 orgasms per year. I agreed to attempt 14, 21 and 28 day chastity periods occasionally after which I would receive 2, 3 and 4 orgasms in succession on the ejaculation day for obeying her wishes and successfully completing the required chastity periods.
While kept in chastity and denied, I undergo significant tease and denial by her of my penis weekly. We have a pact that any accidents will be punishable by a severe bull whipping or bruising paddling to correct my lack of self control. In any event, I am required to service her orally nightly to orgasm.
Our relationship also involves bondage, body worship, prostate massage, toilet training, enema discipline and corrective punishment routines. When not being trained by my femdom, my penis is kept in a CB3000. On the ejaculation day, she controls the orgasm - which is administered swiftly and then the penis is returned to the chastity device. We have agreed the orgasm is a necessary evil and should be downplayed and minimized. Instead, our relationship is based on successful sustained erections of the penis, which she want maximized each week.
(Feel free to share your own experiences.)
Lost Over Cock Kept Erotically Denied Asks for Help
Illustration by The Bishop
I can’t believe that I missed this Dan Savage column from February of last year. Dan got a letter from a husband claiming to have bought his wife a CB-2000 as a joke Christmas present. To his surprise and dismay his spouse kept his penis imprisoned for months at a time.
How often I see that claim on the web. And how rarely do I believe it. Savage didn’t put up with the fellow’s preposterous story for a moment.
If your wife keeps you in chastity—if you have a wife—it’s because being locked up in a CB-3000 turns you on. Like most male-chastity fetishists, you find the scenario more exciting if it’s something your wife does to you, not something you have to beg the wife to do, but you can’t expect the rest of us to play along. If you want to see your fetish discussed in Savage Love, just be honest. Send me a letter that says, “Write about the freaky shit that turns me on!” But don’t make up some bullshit scenario.
My Wife Keeps Me in a Chastity Belt For Months at a Time
I’d like to know how many men actually do surprise their wives with a male chastity device. And how many of those men experience orgasm denial because their wives after the unwelcome shock won’t sleep with them. Divorce them.
Male chastity belts are a huge business. But not nearly as big as the imaginary MCD industry.
See also : CB-3000 For Your Wife?
A guy wrote that he was doing his Christmas shopping:
i also spotted a cb-3000 chastity device in a toy store nearby work, and i want to buy it for Her and present it to Her. Trouble is She probably wouldn’t know what to do with it! So what i was thinking was trying to locate some stories or real life testimonials about the advantages of keeping your husband in chastity, i would present the device to Her at Christmas along with all Her other gifts and let Her read the stories to spark Her mind
You can just see the look on his wife’s face when she opens that mysterious looking thing. Though I do remember a few men who got a chastity device as a birthday or Christmas present.
A few people replied. As did I:
Much of what is put up on the web about “advantages” of chastity is just folklore. A man who is better behaved because he’s wearing a CB-3000 is really one who misbehaves as a way to get it put on him.
I think you should just honestly tell her that you would appreciate it if she’s help you explore this because you think it will make you happy. If she does then make sure her kindness to you is reciprocated by kindness to her.
Since she loves you your happiness will make her feel good. And as your life-partner she will appreciate any additional helpfulness and attentiveness you bring to your relationship. I think you’ll see it is really easier to cultivate and sustain a D/s dynamic that is rooted in mutual happiness than BDSM fiction.
It got me to thinking about instances in my own love affairs when either I or my lover should have expressed some desire clearly and directly. It is easy to go unheard if you are coy or mumble your wish under your breath.
And to strive to be more obliging. Often I fear I failed to be. Intimate times with our partners might prosper more if for fifteen seconds we paused to get past the “No” that instantly rises in our mind and weigh the mutual happiness that might be found in “Yes.” Often our objections are rooted in trivia.
Anyway the guy came back to say:
… i think its best leave it for now as rightly pointed out this is probably for me more than my Wife, its Her birthday the 31st Dec so there’s a few more presents to be bought
Then:
just sold my sony psp for 270 euro… so could spend some of that on the cb 3000
Maybe he’ll return and let us know how it went.
Wanting to wank but thinking you shouldn’t? Just remember:
He’s there when you do it.
Is this guy related to the Burger King?
Many of you strive to have as few orgasms as possible. The lower the number, the greater your pride and sense of achievement.
Recently the British National Health Service suggested that there is a positive correlation between frequent orgasms - by whatever means - and good physical health.
The question is:
A man takes his friends up on a bet that he won’t be able to tolerate wearing a male chastity device - which he prefers to call a penis cage - for an entire day.
Without thinking, I walked out the door, hopped on my bike and start on my way. Bad move.
Clearly the folks who designed the penis cage were not the athletic type, as I learned the hard way. By the time I reached the Hennepin Bridge I was standing up, dry-humping the air and yelling, “Suck it, penis cage!” while a small child walked by with his face painted like a tiger, staring at me with a look that screamed, “I never want to grow up to be like you.”
Amazingly he couldn’t tolerate twenty-four hours of minor discomforts.
Readers of this site are more apt to brag about how long they can go without having a ‘penis cage’ removed (for cleaning doesn’t count).
What is your record?
Phallus of Mass Destruction
In the lore of orgasm denial and enforced chastity male sexuality and its primary instrument, the penis, is often described as relentlessly selfish and destructive. This illustration of Hitler astride a giant cock seems to capture this perfectly.
Penis of Doom!
Illicit Self-Lover, a man who enjoys a regular and frequent wanking schedule is in conflict with his wife writes to advice columnist Prudie (For Prudish?).
I masturbate pretty much every morning after getting up and every evening before I go to bed, unless I think my wife and I will make love. The problem is that my wife sees my masturbation as a declaration that she does not please me, which is not true. I enjoy our lovemaking, and I’d prefer to make love to her as often as I masturbate; she’s simply not interested in doing it that often. (Believe me, I’ve tried.) Moreover, she complains that I “take too long” and says she would be more willing if I were “normal” and didn’t last so long. My wife also has suggested there is something wrong with me for wanting to make love or masturbate as often as I do.
Slate: My wife is intimidated by how often I pleasure myself.
Prudie offers a little bit of sensible advice. But doesn’t really entertain the possibility that the man is married to a cold fish.
Some of you I suspect would say Illicit Self-Lover needs to be locked up in a CB-6000?
