Chastity as Morality

From a comment on one of my other sites.

Setting the context:

My wife and I have been living a female dominated lifestyle now for about 3 years.

But:

When I am unlocked for small periods of time our relationship tends to get extremely dull and non-sexual.

Honest in he confesses a desire for excitement. Sad that a marriage might require orgasm control in order to be fulfilling. But such an atypical solution isn’t necessarily to be mocked.

I start jerking off and lose all attraction and sensuality towards her.

Has he thought to examine his compulsive masturbating when he has a loving wife?

Cliché alert:

When she is horny all I care about is giving her oral sex and pleasing her sexually in every which way I can. To even ask for an orgasm while I am pleasing her orally is seen as inconsiderate and selfish and I would never even think to ask.

If he’s taking care of his wife’s sexual needs why should asking for his own satisfaction be immoral?

The most commonplace stereotype of male sexuality popular among enthusiasts of enforced male orgasm control:

We are true believers in the importance of female dominated marriages were the male is chastised so that they think with the head on there shoulders rather than the one between our legs.

What a sadly impoverished philosophy of male sexuality. And a pathetic self-perception. If most men were so dementedly phallocentric we’d have achieved very little.

Enforced male chastity games are for fun and mutual pleasure, not an activity nearly so grim and prim.

Orgasm denial as a form of morality is mighty immoral.