Male Chastity : Is it Healthy?
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Use it or lose it is one of the fears male chastity inspires. A urologist advises:
The normal male has 3-5 erections nightly during the REM stage of sleep. Therefore, concern about damage to the penis from disuse (in a normally potent male) is unfounded. Most men also will have periodic nocturnal emissions (wet dreams).
About those blue balls:
Arousal without ejaculation causes the prostate to swell with fluid producing tension on the prostate’s capsule leading to symptoms of congestive prostatitis. Stool passing through the rectum actually pushes on the distended prostate producing the penile discharge. Prolonged sitting (you sit on the prostate) can cause the discharge to be noted before voiding. At the end of urination, as the bladder is emptying out the last few drops of urine, it actually squeezes the prostate. If the prostate is congested, you will then note this fluid at the end of urination. With congestive prostatitis discomfort is often referred to the testicle(s), groin, low back or rectal area. This pain in the testicles is denoted by the slang terms: “blue balls” or “lover’s nuts”. Irritative urinary symptoms may also occur. In some patients, only the discharge is noted. The discharge is generally immediately relieved by ejaculation and prevented by avoiding sexual arousal without ejaculation. Sitting in a warm bathtub for 10-15 minutes daily will also provide some relief.
He warns:
I can tell you that emptying via prostatic massage is an uncomfortable technique, certainly devoid of any pleasure or orgasm and not nearly efficient as natural ejaculation.
Of course he has no idea that is exactly what you want.
