Orgasm Denial Isn't For Every Man
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A comment left on another of my sites:
I’m a male and there is some truth to your claim that men normally initiate the chastity device fantasy. However, I found the fantasy much better than the reality. In the middle of the night, laying there awake at 3 am in the morning beside my woman, unable to sleep after a week in prison the reality was more than I could handle. When I woke my woman up telling her that I couldn’t take it anymore, I was devastated to hear her say she was adding more days because I broke the rules. I played by the rules to get free, but I didn’t find being submissive much fun. Climbing the walls wanting relief quit being fun on day one, after a week … well, I don’t plan to do it again.
I wonder who many men who have experimented with orgasm denial have made the same decision.
Comments
More fuel for the fire that not all men are the same. Hardly a news flash to anyone with half a brain, of course.
Posted by: maymay | February 7, 2008 2:13 AM
We are a married couple, he initiated, and is now in a CB-6000.
It has had just to opposite effect on our relationship. It has improved our sex lives 10 fold. We both have to use our imaginations to satisfy her sexual needs, and meeting her needs has become a much more important responsiblity to him.
There really is a mindset change that takes place, and it takes at least a week to 10 days before his denial effects his psyche.
When he is released, the occassion is very memorable, though short lived. He can’t wait to begin the jouney again.
Posted by: tufun40s | April 30, 2008 8:55 AM