Illicit Self-Lover
See more » Masturbation
Illicit Self-Lover, a man who enjoys a regular and frequent wanking schedule is in conflict with his wife writes to advice columnist Prudie (For Prudish?).
I masturbate pretty much every morning after getting up and every evening before I go to bed, unless I think my wife and I will make love. The problem is that my wife sees my masturbation as a declaration that she does not please me, which is not true. I enjoy our lovemaking, and I’d prefer to make love to her as often as I masturbate; she’s simply not interested in doing it that often. (Believe me, I’ve tried.) Moreover, she complains that I “take too long” and says she would be more willing if I were “normal” and didn’t last so long. My wife also has suggested there is something wrong with me for wanting to make love or masturbate as often as I do.
Slate: My wife is intimidated by how often I pleasure myself.
Prudie offers a little bit of sensible advice. But doesn’t really entertain the possibility that the man is married to a cold fish.
Some of you I suspect would say Illicit Self-Lover needs to be locked up in a CB-6000?
Comments
I think he might need to focus more on his wife than his cock. What does he mean “he tried”? Did he try in the man way or did he think about her and try in a way that would suit her? A guy just asking for sex is not as appealing as a guy who has done the laundry, offers to clean up from dinner so she doesn’t have to do it all herself. Then try some romance, give her a compliment, tell her how much he enjoys being with her (Not in a sexual way), schmooze her before making it physical. A woman wants to know she is wanted/ desired, not just a handy tool when you’re horny.
Posted by: Laura | April 19, 2011 11:06 PM