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In surveying secular erotic voluntary chastity on the web I discovered the men who engage in orgasm denial without a keyholder or dominant.
Some are training themselves, they say, for the day when they will be lucky enough to have a mistress.
Others - mostly gay men perhaps - engage in self-imposed orgasm denial as sort of sport like weightlifting. A lifter’s goal may be to achieve a new personal best in bench pressing. The self-denier hopes to go ever longer without an orgasm.
These guys often have an enviably large collection of chastity devices.
They get a heightened sense of vitality and intensity: chastity becomes a source of personal power. Each triumph a source of pride.
A sort of ironic inversion of masturbation.
Comments
I’m 28yo and together with a domme girl. She’d allow me to have orgasms, but I have decided to do without. Having an orgasm is an intense pleasure, and I don’t think that I have deserved that. I just milk myself about 2 times a week.
Posted by: Thomas | March 23, 2007 11:48 AM
hey im relatively young and i follow an decreasing orgasm regimen (currenly at 1 a week) of self imposed chastity and am prepaing for the day when i do have a domme
Posted by: mitch | June 18, 2007 11:57 PM
I am a young fit male, and I am in Orgasm Denial. I have not allowed Orgasm or Ejaculation for 33 days now and I feel fantastic.
Posted by: Damon | June 20, 2007 5:53 AM
I’m 19, and my gf has put me into chastity now for 40 days, however she does not like the idea of cages, so I must do it all without the cage. I’m into day 14 now, 26 to go, and its really hard not to jack, only my love for her makes me stop myself from doing it. She was amazed when I told her I masturbated 2, 3 times a day, so now I’m going to be down to maybe 10 times a year
Posted by: Matthew | August 19, 2007 5:31 AM
Hey, I just started my own self denial.. im a switch and i have dommed a friend of mine for a long time now… she is just finishing off a 2 month (61/62 days) of denial that i imposed on her… She was to do 50-100 edgings (Taking herself to the edge of orgasm) each day.. the more she did, the better ‘show’ i would give her every week :P Now im trying to go a week without cumming for her to give her a really good show. However, im at 3-5 orgasms a day up untill now, so im aready finding it very hard after only one and a half days… This is without a cage, so i hope i can keep going… Thanks for reading this :P
Posted by: First Timer | October 1, 2008 1:54 PM
its good to be independent. then why not self imposed denial!
Posted by: mohan | March 30, 2009 5:43 AM
Nothing here condemns self-imposed orgasm restriction, denial.
Posted by: Richard | March 30, 2009 5:56 AM