Her Schedule

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How long to deny how orgasm, how often to allow release is probably the first question that comes to mind when people begin to think of exploring male chastity regimins.

In an otherwise pedestrian discussion of orgasm denial within BDSM relationships a woman presented this atypical schedule:

Recently he was chaste for a month. Toward the end of that time he became very lackadaisickal and was missing a lot of simple but important details. I gave him a week off. This was partly due to his feeling overwhelmed by school, but he also needed release physically. I told him he could masturbate as much as he wanted to during our time off. Part of me felt this was a risk. I might keep a more solid connection by giving him release in a controlled situation as I’ve always done before. I will admit I felt like testing him.

When we resumed our communication the following week, toward the end of our conversation I asked him how long he’d been chaste. He said five days (obviously he’d masturbated one time and then put himself back on his chastity regimen). Since I’d told him he could masturbate as much as he wanted to during our time off, I corrected him and told him according to my schedule he’d been chaste for zero days. The look on his face was entertaining.

Rather than impose the 5-yard penalty on him, I requsted he masturbate once a day until I instructed him to stop. He balked and claimed it wasn’t good for his health, which began to fascinate me. I told him I know men who masturbate several times a day and they are alive, kicking, and always ready to poke something.

This fellow is proud of his self control. I certainly don’t want to devalue him in any way or ruin his resolve. But I also want to make sure he’s following MY regimen, not his. I’d also like to affect some physiological changes in him if possible, so ultimately holding back becomes a little more rigorous for him when we are together.

So far it’s been two weeks and he’s lost none of his energy for this. He holds to his squirting regimen and still shows up with an eager smiling face. I don’t think he understands why I’m doing this entirely, but he remains devoted, knowing full well he’s headed for the slave panties sooner than later.

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Richard

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